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I'm an Introvert Just Like You 

Developing strategies for people like us to level up and live our best life

Who I Am

If you have been searching to find the place where you are invited, included, 

seen for who you are & respected

Welcome Home

I saved a seat for you

~Nick

“I want to be alone… with someone else who wants to be alone.” 
    – Dimitri Zaik

I grew up being misunderstood, crushed under the weight of being shy and introverted.  At the time it was a major handicap for me. 

I wanted more than anything to break out, to have a better life, a different life...a different story.

I failed too many times to count.  Nothing worked. 

I heard that you can expect to be about the same as the average of the 5 people you spend the most time with.

I wanted to level up and live the life of my choosing with access to the people and opportunities that can have an impact.

But I spent most of my time alone.  How do you go about finding these 5 people?

I tried all of the traditional networking and found out quickly the traditional approach does not work for introverts.

It actually seems to work against you.

So after a lot of trial and error. After a lot of observation.  After a lot of failing, I finally found a way to network at the highest levels while using my introversion as an advantage.  I learned how to be seen, remembered, included, consulted and invited while still being true to my introvert nature. (And I still spend a lot of time alone, but by choice now)  

It has been a great life since then.

If you have wanted to break out and have more and better options for your life, I would like to show you how to do it.

Let me show you a BETTER way, a way that works for people like us.

As I type this, I think about what I would be thinking if I were you reading this, it would be "If you hacked the way to do this, why share it?  Why not just keep it to yourself and keep thriving?"  And I understand that because I am always skeptical when people say they just want to help others.

Here's what's up.  

Helping YOU helps ME

Here's how...currently I have a very strong international network. People that I know, trust, respect and enjoy being around.  They feel the same about me.  I feel if I can help you use your introversion as a strength to build a strong network of your own, you will be very happy.

And you will gladly be part of MY network and I will be part of YOUR network and therefore, my network will grow stronger through you and your network will grow stronger through me.

Imagine being part of a worldwide network of introverts.  We are all strong and talented in our own way and in different fields of expertise but at the same time we all understand each other.  And that understanding and connection makes our group even stronger. 

In the Mafia they would call it being "Made".  I think by creating our worldwide network of introverts it will be like being "made" without having to do anything illegal. You'll just be known, respected, included, consulted, invited and understood.  As introverts, when we want to be alone we have that option and it will be respected by the group, but when we want to reach out, we are there for each other.

I put a lot of work, blood sweat and tears into learning how to do high level social networking as an introvert to make my life matter and mean something.

 

I am committed to helping YOU see things from a completely different angle.  My coaching is designed to have

Maximum Impact, Be Remembered, and have Lasting Change.

 

Don't take my word for it.  Make me prove it!

...because proving it is what I do best.

~Nick

 

And Who Am I?

 

Hi, I'm Nick Shelton.  Here are the basics...

 

I was born in Texas, raised and live in Denver, Colorado USA (God Bless Texas & Go Broncos!)

 

Lived in 3 countries and traveled to over 36 so far (I love the food!)

 

I am a veteran of the United States Air Force (Served with pride)

 

Worked in the Oil and Gas industry for 15 years

 

I treat my friends like family (And my enemies like ENEMIES!)

 

I love ocean kayaking, sailboats and yachts but I do get seasick fairly easily (Yeah, I know)

As an introvert I was able to network myself into a high level life where I am known, welcome and respected

 

I enjoy watching and performing stand up comedy (I love to laugh)

 

I write songs (gotta express myself)

 

I love street racing (pull up to me at the red light and...) 

 

I can cook a grilled swordfish that will make you fall in love (Yes YOU)

 

Clients have flown me to other countries for my advice and guidance

Clients have flown from Europe and Central America to meet with me and work with me here in the USA

I'm known, included, consulted and invited when it counts and when it matters

My most valuable asset is my network, my connections and my relationships with people

 

I am constantly seeking new ways to add more value to my network and my relationships 

 

I want to help YOU live your best life through showing you how to network as an introvert to connect with like minded individuals who will accept and respect you as you are but also raise your level to where you want to be.

 

~Solutions That Work For Introverts~